start with a quick compression test... if u have a good miss at idle, consistantly, it should not take long to figure it out.
fuel/air + compression + spark = bang... as long as its timed correctly....
but looking at that plug being so melted, and the others were fine... (hard to tell cuz its out of focus, but i can see your pants, shirt, screwdriver, oily shop towel, dog (thanks for keeping your dog tied up, and not roaming the streets eating childrens blow up pools/toys btw), coffee cup, michelin tire (minivan??), grv4 engine bay, driveway quite well)...................................Id say you have a bad injector/wiring probably.